β€οΈ Falling in love is a strong and overwhelming feeling that affects our emotions and decision-making.
π Many marriages fail due to poor decision-making and lack of compatibility.
πΆββοΈ People often sacrifice their happiness and lose their sense of self in a relationship.
π‘ The problem lies in our focus and perspective when choosing partners and trying to change them.
π We repeat this cycle of struggling to find the desired relationship and ending up frustrated.
π We ignore the red flags that indicate the reality of the people we are attracted to.
π Selecting relationships based on genuine compatibility rather than settling for societal norms.
π« Avoiding defensive behavior and isolation when confronted by friends and family.
β οΈ Recognizing the addictive nature of intense emotional connections and the importance of listening to those around us.
βοΈ Our logical brain, the frontal cortex, makes logical decisions, but it should not control our emotions and feelings in relationships.
π We often ignore the good person who is honest, loyal, trustworthy, and loves us, while being attracted to someone with a questionable past.
π Love often overrides our rational thinking, leading us to make decisions that may not be in our best interest.
π The constant desire to change people in relationships is futile and a waste of time.
π‘ We need to evaluate ourselves and our fears in order to have successful relationships.
π Instead of trying to please others, we should focus on what is important to us and be bold in pursuing our goals.
π« It is important to know what we want and be selective in our relationships.
β€οΈ Being honest and finding genuine connections is more important than being with someone exciting.
π Seeking happiness within ourselves is crucial before entering a relationship.
π Trust your community for wisdom and ongoing advice.
π€ Choose honest friends who give constructive feedback.
π£οΈ Speak to experts or counselors for guidance.
β Be brave enough to recognize red flags and leave early if necessary.
π Believe that true love and improvement in current relationships are possible.
π Work through fear and doubts by taking action.
πͺ Trust in your ability to analyze, believe in yourself, and ask important questions.
π« Listen to the advice of loved ones who want what's best for you.
β€οΈ Don't deceive yourself, trust that your loved ones truly care about you.